Six text messages you can send right that will feel (almost) like a hug

Did you know that receiving a text message from a friend can give you a dopamine boost?

Unlike receiving an email, opening an app, or scrolling through socials, text messages feel good. A single text message from a friend, colleague or family member creates a little dopamine boost that makes us feel cared for, which in turn increases motivation.

Here at Help Texts we see - every day - how powerful text messaging can be. We send millions of texts to people around the world who are feeling lonely, grieving a loved one, feeling burned out, or just looking for a boost.

Special thanks to my daughter, Pippa Cochrane, for her original artwork.

Based on that experience, here are six suggestions for text messages you can send right now, to someone in your life who could use a little dopamine lift.

  • The Gratitude Text

Hi, Sara. I'm so grateful for your friendship. Thank you for having my back yesterday, and being ready to listen.

  • The Memory Text

Hi, Mom. I was just remembering how much we laughed that time when Jason was trying to assemble the BBQ. That memory will always be special to me.

  • The Thoughtful Gift Text

Hi, Steven. I just left some beer and snacks on your doorstep. When you're ready I'd love to come and sit on the porch and share a drink with you. No rush. I'm here anytime.

  • The Photo Text

Hi Maria. I found this photo on my phone, from our trip with Carlos last year. You must be missing him right now, but maybe this photo will bring a smile for your face. Just look at how much he loved you. We’ll have smiles like this again, I promise.

  • The Music Text

Hi, Lindsay. You probably don’t know this, but this song always makes me think of you, and brings a smile to my face. Whenever I hear it, I think about our trip to Sonoma, and that late night bike ride home. Listen and enjoy.

  • The Specific Offer of Help Text.

Hi Tom. Can I take Rover with me when I go to the park this afternoon? I know you need to stay off your feet right now, but I would love to have your pup with me for some fresh air, and will bring him back happy & tired.

If there's someone in your life who could use a little boost, take a few minutes and send them a text. If you'd like more suggestions or would like to receive our texts, check out Help Texts - because sometimes, a message at just the right moment can give you the dopamine lift and motivation you need to lift your spirits.

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